This card reminds me of struggle and strife. It looks like a lot of people clamoring for a spot or for what they think is right. I don’t think it’s anything violent, but as wands are the suit of fire and creativity, it brings to mind when people are excited and want their opinions and ideas heard. How can everyone in this space be validated and given a platform?
It brings to mind, for me, situations where my partner and I don’t exactly see “eye to eye” and we need to find a middle ground in order to move forward. We’ve done a lot of this while experiencing buying and working on our house.
A lot of times, it’s me who is loudest or most particular or wants my way. In our relationship, I am more uptight and Andrew is more laid-back. What I’ve learned of late is that no one person needs to be “right.” I’ve learned things aren’t always perfect or just one thing or another. There are grey areas and compromises that aren’t bad, but are simply a shift.
I feel this is the lesson of the five of wands: where there is clamoring and disagreement, there often needs to be a shift in focus or perspective in order to move forward.
Back to my example of our home, it means that our compromise of today is putting aside the current big project (painting the bathroom) and instead lounging with our cat, Gary, and watching all of the Lord of the Rings extended films. It is giving ourselves space and permission to relax and enjoy and fill our cups before plunging into 2019. It is putting aside the to do list to just be.
Relating this back to the five of wands, this does not take the focus off the bigger picture, but allows us to “live our truth” for today and simply be.
I am blogging my experiences here with Beth Maiden’s Alternative Tarot Course which asks students to draw a card each day, reflect on it, complete weekly readings, and other assorted exercises.